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A Foodie-Nerd Anniversary

4.28.2010
Monday was our 7th Anniversary and we celebrated like the Foodie-Nerds that we are. We went out to dinner at a favorite restaurant and for gifts I gave Matt a new temperature gauge for his Brinkman Meat Smoker and Matt gave me a Belgium Waffle Maker.

Now wait, not just ANY Belgium Waffle Maker.

You see, TRUE Belgium Waffles are either Liege or Brussles Waffles. I want to make Liege(pronounced Lee-aysh) which is made from a sturdy yeast dough and has chunks of sugar pearls in them and therefore cannot be cooked in a standard American waffle maker because our temperatures run too high. But my amazing Foodie husband, in all of his foodie wisdom, knew this and therefore bought me a Belgium Waffle Maker with an adjustable temperature gauge.


Now for a trip to our nearby IKEA store to pick up some Pearl Sugar and I'm all ready to go.

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Dear Crystal Bowersox,

4.27.2010
I don't need you to change your hippy clothes
or even your dread-locks
I'm fine with that.
The piercings?
Sure, I'm down.

I don't need you to conform to every social pressure
out there to look a certain way.

But for the love of all that's holy
please bleach your teeth.


See you at the finale,

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future sales opportunity

My husband abhors bumper stickers of any kind.
I have always known this about him and so our vehicles have always been sticker free.
Last week we were driving in the car and I saw a pink ribbon on a car with the breast cancer slogan "Save the Ta Tas" on it, which I have always thought was funny.



Me: Honey, if I ever got Breast Cancer could we put a pink ribbon on the back of our car?
Matt: Sure.
Me: Really? Would you wear a pink shirt and walk in the Susan G. Komen walk with me?
Matt: Of course!
Me: Would you wear a shirt that said "I (heart) my wife's ta tas"?
Matt: Dude, I would wear that NOW.

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First Impressions

4.25.2010
The first time I saw him
my friend said to me,
"Isn't he hot?!"
And I replied,
"Meh...if you like THAT type."

As it turns out I do like that type.

Happy Anniversary Honey-Ham!
7 Years down....70 more to go.

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Book Review: The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

4.24.2010
by: Mary Ann Shaffer & Annie Barrows
★ ★ ★ ★ ★

A charming and disarming book. I usually don't care for books written in letter format. I find it much more difficult to become invested in characters when you only gain knowledge from letters, but this book (and also "Daddy Long Legs") is a happy exception.

The authors somehow blend sadness, war and harsh realities with humor, wit and charm. It is amazing how seamlessly those book flows from disheartening stories of Nazi occupied Europe to delightfully upbeat tales of new friendships and life moving on after the heartache of war.

The characters are well written and their voices are so laced with humor that you feel you really know them and/or wish you knew them. I adored this book from beginning to end and laughed out loud on many occasions alongside moments of heartache and sorrow reading of the harsh realities of war.

I highly recommend this book to all. It's an easy read that manages to touch you and make you laugh as it's highly engaging story unfolds.

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an unintentional revelation

4.23.2010
last night
the girls were in bed
the hubbs was doing the dishes
i was sitting in our living room
on a freshly vacuumed floor
folding copious amounts of clean laundry
and watch "the office"
and all of the sudden
it struck me
a completely unbidden thought
but one which enveloped my entire body for a moment

i am happy
completely and utterly
happy

i sat there
still
and relished in the feeling which
lingered comfortably in my heart
then i said a silent prayer
thanking god for all of my blessings

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computer crash!

4.20.2010
blogging temporarily suspended until we get it fixed.
BLAST!


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proud to be a

4.19.2010
Mormon.Read this.

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First Stop....the Girls' Bedroom

Ella really wants her bedroom to be beautiful. She has been asking about it a lot lately, so I am thinking the girls' room will be the first stop on my decorating tour.

But, some of you may remember this post.

I bought those sets, but cannot use them because they were terrible quality and when washed per the directions they tore apart. Yes, JCPenney is going to be hearing from me and my poison pen very soon.

So the quest for bedding continues.

I have decided on a color scheme of pale yellow, dark pink and light pink (with some accents of other colors like greens). The walls of their room will definitely be a soft buttery yellow.

Here are some options...keep in mind that we can't afford any of these right now. Just dreamin'!
Julia Quilt
$89.99

Flower Burst Quilt Set
$83.99

Sweet Helen Quilt
$99.99


Thanks to SARA for recommending this set from Target in the comments. We actually COULD afford this set much sooner than later.


Liberty of London Toddler Bedding
$49.99


I am also considering sewing quilts to save money.
Here is the fabric I would use...


All from the Hunky Dory collection by MODA

What are your thoughts on the above options?

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Noddin' my head like yeah...Moving my hips like yeah

4.16.2010
Tonight our friends, The Campbells, had a Spring Fling Dance in their garage.
A bunch of families and their kids were invited.
They had a fabulous dance mix, a black light and tons of party snacks.
What could be better?

Our family had SO MUCH FUN!
We all danced the night away. Here's the proof...



Ella was basking in the glory of the dance party.



Daddy and Evangeline really got busy once the Swing music came on.



The whole gang came alive when Jump Around started playing.



And I was there too....looking devilishly cool and mysterious.

It was one of the most fun (and defiantly coolest) parties I have been to in a long time!
Don't you wish you had friends as fun as ours?
Seriously.

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Great Advice for Decorating

4.15.2010

Alternate Post Titles:
My bloggies are the BEST!
Shout-Out to Libby!
Now, SHE knows what she's talking about!
I got the following email from a blog reader and (sigh.) I love my bloggies! You really all are too fabulous! Her thoughts were so helpful and complete that I think the email is well worth posting here. Her email follows.

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I just saw your blog post about decorating and felt compelled to respond. And as I did, I realized I had a lot more to say than would be appropriate for a blog comment. I hope you don't mind all of the advice. I, too, have been redoing my house lately so it is top-of-mind for me. Anyway, here goes....

My top ten pieces of decorating advice for Emilie Ahern (in no particular order):
1. I've read your blog(s) for awhile now and you have great taste. Trust it.

2. You already know a lot of the principles of design (balance, composition, color, etc). Applying them to your home is the same - it's just a larger scale and requires thinking three dimensionally.

3. Figure out the layout of your room, how you want it to function, how you want it to feel and go from there. Assessing the room is probably the single most important thing you can do. If you have a lot of knick-knacks and nowhere to put them you're going to be in trouble. Or if the room is going to function as a family-friendly space and you have a lot of "untouchables" that will also present problems. Figuring out what you have and what you need can easily be done with a tape measure and grid paper and will save you hours of headache later (think buying artwork you can't use or backaches from rearranging furniture).

4. Light colors reflect light and dark colors absorb it. Therefore, light colors expand a space and dark colors shrink it. You can use either in your space, you just need to know how much light you have (natural or otherwise) and how "big" you want the space to feel.

5. High contrast creates high energy and low contrast creates a more soothing feel. If you look at the two photos you posted, the first one has a more soothing overall feel because the main colors are almost monochromatic (beige, cream and tan). But the second photo with its main colors of dark brown and white bounces your eye around the room and creates a higher energy level. You can have high and low contrast with both light and dark colors. For example, a room with all gray tones (from deep to light) would have an overall soothing feeling, whereas a room with bright green walls and white (or even black!) trim would have a much higher energy level. Either scheme is fine, you just need to decide which one you want (see #3).

6. Not only should the layout of the room flow well, you should also remember to keep it balanced vertically. If you scan your eye around a room, the weight should be distributed equally from top to bottom. Have a lot of low pieces of furniture? Make sure to dress your windows with long drapes or a valance and use visually big pieces of artwork to give weight to the top of the room too. Also, if you have a big piece of furniture on one side of a room (like an armoire) balance the opposing side with something big as well (either furniture or artwork grouped together to give the wall weight).

7. Apply the rule of odds: Everything looks better in odd numbers. Want to add a punch of color? Use three things with that color spaced throughout the room (see light green items in photo #1). Have some artwork you want to group together? 9 looks so much better than 8

8. As others have said, use the things you love and it will all come together in the end.

9. Pick a metal and stick with it. A room looks so much more intentional if you have one type of metal throughout (iron, brass, pewter, etc). Metal primer and spray paint are your friends.

10. Repetition. Repetition is the difference between a well-decorated room and a decorated room. Have a beautiful pine armoire? Find an end table with the same wood tone so that each piece relates to the other and looks intentional. Have a pillow with a fleur-de-lis? Find some hooks or a doorstop with a fleur-de-lis. It doesn't have to be a lot (or even obvious), but when there are the same elements repeated throughout a space it gives it rhythm and cohesion.

Good luck! I know you are going to knock this out of the park! Just be sure to keep all of us updated on your progress!

Libby
P.S. Be sure to check out design blogs and magazines. As with most things creative, you will be overwhelmed with the inspiration! Here are a few of my current faves:

- http://littlegreennotebook.blogspot.com/
- http://sweetsomethingdesign.blogspot.com/ (I especially like her tutorial about chippy paint finish)
- http://thepioneerwoman.com/ Pioneer Woman's friend, Hyacinth, is redecorating her living room and getting help from three talented women. Check out Pioneer Woman's Home and Garden section for updates and links.

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Libby...YOU ROCK!
Thanks a million times for the thought, effort and inspiration!
Tomorrow I may tidy up and take some before photos of our bland, boring house.

P.S. I will also post a specific poster I bought at the flea market this Summer and ask for some advice from my readers. I LOVE this poster and want to hang it in my girl's room, but can't imagine how to build off of it. Stay tuned.



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I have a confession...

4.13.2010
Although I posses a certain amount of natural ability and talent at almost all things crafty...
I can't decorate my house worth a lick.

I get all caught up with things "matching" and having a scheme. This problem has escalated recently since this house of ours looks like a sterile mental hospital. Nothing adorns the walls and there is no color or life!

This is a surprise even to me since in my scrapbooking days I was known for bold colors and mixing of patterns. So why can't I translate that into my living environment?


So I have made a commitment to myself to start right now and seek pieces to make my home warm, colorful, energetic and alive. And maybe a little kooky. After all...these are adjectives that could be used to describe me. So how come my living space does not look like I live in it?

I pledge to be bold, colorful and try my best to let go of the linear thinker that I am and allow myself to decorate based solely on passion. I am going to start today to fill my home with things, textures and colors that I love. I am going to start tearing ideas, concepts, colors and inspiration from magazines and compiling it in a binder. Then, once I know what direction to head in, the slow infusion of life into my home decor will begin.

Details are sure to follow as my new journey commences.


Help me readers!
What are your best decorating tips?

*images from House Beautiful website.

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Tuesday Tell All

4.12.2010

How do you comfort those who have suffered a tragedy or loss?

When I was in College I had a fabulous Relief Society President (women's Group Leader) who was close to my age, but actually taught at the University where I attended. Whenever a boy did me wrong/broke my heart/acted like a jerk (which was often) she took me to Outback Steakhouse for Cheese Fries and a Strawberry Lemonade...on her. Then she would use the cheese fries as an analogy for socking it to stupid boys everywhere. Now that I was free of said boy, I could eat this deliciously greasy, cheesy, pile of calories and not care one bit. Gone were the days of conformity, dieting and feigning femininity that comes with dating. Time to unleash and really pig out. Those cheese fries always did the trick...many a broken heart began to mend with the help of bacon, cheddar and ranch dressing.

It's funny because when my in-laws visited last January my therapist father-in-law and I spoke about this exact topic. Generally I am only comforting women, so that makes a slight difference in the approach. Without knowing it I follow three steps.

1. Let them talk without interruption. This may take hours, but women need to process grief through words so I let them talk and talk and talk until they find the silence.

2. Offer genuine sympathy. I love my friends like sisters, so when they're hurting...I hurt. When they're done talking I tell them how sorry I am for what they are going through. I don't try and force a silver lining or find a lesson learned. Sometimes, people just need to feel the full weight of sorrow and I think that's okay.

3. The 3rd part is what my Father-In-Law and I spoke about a bit. I usually try and lighten the mood. I tell a funny story, recall a memory of me and my friend together that can bring a laugh, etc. I guess I have a need to feel like they got off of the phone feeling lighter than they did when they called. Of course, I haven't used this step when death is involved or something truly awful, but for life's general disappointments I feel driven to make them happier. I'm not sure if that's healthy or not...but there it is.

So, how do YOU comfort someone who is grieving?

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the curious incident of the cat in the morning

Yesterday morning I was downstairs in our basement and Ella was on the main floor eating her breakfast when all of the sudden I heard the most piercing, fear-filled shrieking I have heard in a while.

She was screaming, almost unintelligibly,

MOMMY!!! THERE'S A KITTY CAT IN OUR HOUSE!

Before I could get there, Matt appeared and chased the cat out, but Ella was still traumatized. She ran downstairs and sobbed about how scared she was and how the cat was meowing A LOT! I tried to calm her down by telling her funny stories of our family cat I had when I was little. I thought she was warming to the idea until today, when she produced this sign and asked if we could post it outside our back door.


Man, we have GOT to toughen this kid up a bit.

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this & that

4.09.2010


going to the lds Temple tonight.
all ready to do ordinances for my ancestors.
very very excited!

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1:30 AM last night/this morning :
"hey matt, wanna get some McDonald's french fries?"
i love 24 hour McDonalds.

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my girls are starting to play well together again.
i am so grateful because i could not handle many more
sobbing,
highly emotional fights.
aren't girls supposed to discover drama when they are 13?

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received a brand new set of scriptures in the mail this week.
and although i will always mourn the loss of my beloved set of mission scriptures,
i have red pencil ready and i am feasting upon the word.

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i don't generally believe in spanking,
but i do believe in threatening to spank.
is that wrong?

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i'm thinking of getting some vintage smurf episodes on dvd for the girls.
i always loved jokey smurf.
remember he would bust out a present that would explode in the opener's face
and then he would laugh?
sadistic, but SO funny.

which smurf was YOUR favorite?

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disney on ice

4.08.2010
it was AMAZE-ZING!

We got there, grabbed our seats and the magic began.
The show featured Ariel, Belle, Mulan, Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, Tinkerbell, Jasmine and also Mickey and Minnie Mouse and Goofy!

I'll let the pictures tell the rest...


( before the show )



( in our seats...purple princess ear plugs in place )



( sleeping beauty fairies designing the dress )



( being silly and having fun! fish-faces abound. )


Another HUGE thank you to Stephanie!
You made our year!


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princesses, kit kats and rhubarb

4.07.2010
Tonight is the night!
Our entire family is heading to Hershey, PA for Disney Princesses on Ice.
Evangeline climbed into my bed first thing this morning,
snuggled up to me under the blankets and whispered,
"Is today the day for Princesses on Ice?"
Yes. It is.

Our wonderful friend, Stephanie, bought the tickets for us and the entire family is giddy with excitement. I will be sure to have many tales and photos to share tomorrow!

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This year, Matt's work had a NCAA Tournament brackets competition. They held it through ESPN.com and staff members and their spouses were invited to join in and enter up to three brackets each.

I went in with the only strategies I know....Nerd Strategies.

Alphabet Power: where Brigham Young University took the entire thing because of their proximity to the letter A.
Seed Science: where the top rated teams going into the tournament won.
Funny Names: Where the funniest name always wins. Villanova? Now that's a funny name!

As it turns out...yours truly claimed TWO of the top four spots in the final tally!
Booyah!
And for my stellar strategy I won a King Sized Kit Kat.
But even better was the bragging I get to do to my sweet husband who finished 2nd from LAST place.

Life is sweet.
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As to growing my own rhubarb...did you know it takes 3 years after planting to get an actual harvest? Blast you Rhubarb! You're a cruel Mistress.

I will have to settle for Amish grown rhubarb from our Farmer's Market and our planned attendance at this year's Rhubarb Festival on May 21-22 in Intercourse, PA (insert giggle here).

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Tuesday

4.06.2010
Was the day of getting things done...

- Shower
- Drop off girls at Pre-School.
- Call friend who went through a break-up last night. Tell her he's an idiot.
- Head to DMV. Realize I punched the wrong address in the GPS just as I was about to head across the Susquehanna River. Turned around and got it right.
- Sit in DMV for 2.5 hours until they figure out how to contact the Delaware DMV.
DMV = Doofus City.
- Drive 35 minutes back to Pre-School to pick up girls.
- Stop at the house and pick up four scoops of Laundry detergent and every large blanket we own...total = 7.
- Head back toward DMV with a stop at Sonic for Corn Dog two kids meals and large Dr. Pepper for me.
- Spend 60 more minutes in DMV and finally get a temporary PA licence. Glance at the picture and wonder when I stopped caring what I look like in Licence photos. The picture is decidedly sweaty and fat...and I could care less. Who looks at licence photos these days anyways? Nobody.
- Head to Pimp Daddy Laundry Mat. Wash and dry all blankets, fold them and read a good magazine in the process.
- Pimp Daddy Laudry Mat has a fabulous hot pink wall. I took full advantage and, as usual, Ella posed and Evangeline fought me.


- Head home. Start feeling jealous about the corn dog. Pull over at Sonic and get myself one. And a tots. And another Dr. Pepper. I have needs.
- Put Fifi down for her nap.
- Read Ella a book and plan tonight's FHE.
- Call friend for break-up aftermath follow-up call.

(this is the part where I start losing steam)

- Matt returns home and I inform him that my day was crazy and could he please make dinner. He agrees, but not before I tell him he can make whatever he wants...however I really really really want egg salad sandwiches.
- Family Home Evening.
- Teach the kids a new song about loving the earth.
- Research growing my own rhubarb.
- Catch up with Emily Foley on the phone....seriously, my Fole-O-Meter was dangerously low. Now I feel re-energized and Foley-ized.
- Watch American Idol....Goldilocks ROCKED it!
- Fall asleep on the couch.

...ready for tomorrow.


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spring break

4.05.2010

Thurday
Thursday dawned at around 11:00 AM since our guests flight and drive home got us to sleep around 3:00 AM. After a long sleep in and showers for all we headed to Hershey, PA. It was very crowded since the schools here are also on Spring Break, but we did get to have fun at Hershey World where we rode the ride, sampled chocolate and bought some goodies from the gift shop. (I don't have any pictures since I was busy wrangling a very cranky Ella onto the ride). We had a l;ate lunch and then piled into the car and headed to the shopping Outlets in Lancaster...followed by dinner at Panera.


Friday
We started off the day with breakfast at Pancake Farm. As always...it was so delicious!



Then we headed to Central Market in Lancaster...the oldest running Farmer's Market in the United States. I picked up some homemade strawberry rhubarb jam. Lolly snagged a bracelet and Katie and Annie enjoyed a piece of Shoo Fly Pie.




Then we headed home so the girls could color Easter eggs before tomorrow's hunt.



That evening we dropped Drew, Annie and Katie off at a Phillies game and Lolly and I spent a night on the town in Philly. This consisted of Cheese Steaks from Jim's on South Street. Lolly almost got us kicked out for blundering each and every step of the ordering process. (the Cheese Steak people are very Soup Nazi.)


And yes....for those of you who have not been to Philly...THIS is what an authentic Philly Cheese Steak looks like. No white cheese, no green peppers and no mushrooms. Anything else is an imitation. I'm just sayin'.




Saturday
Saturday morning brought the family Easter Egg hunt. Lolly, Matt, the girls and I had tons of fun playing on the grass, finding eggs, gorging ourselves on jellybeans and playing ball in the backyard. Then we had a Family Home Evening (we left it until the weekend on purpose) about Easter. We loved having Lolly there.

The rest of Saturday was a delightfully lazy day spent watching LDS General Conference and then visiting the Outlets in Lancaster again for even MORE Shopping fun! Evangeline and Ella insisted on wearing their Easter dresses to the Outlets.


We had some tasty homemade lasagna for dinner and then had "Movie Night". We munched popcorn and watched Phineas and Ferb with the girls and after they went to bed...Lolly, Matt and I watched "500 Days of Summer".


Sunday
Sunday brought more General Conference watching and then packing up and heading to the Jersey shore.





After a frolic on the beach we said a sad goodbye to Lolly and the gang and headed home. We awoke this morning to a very empty house.
Early this afternoon Evangeline said, "Mommy. Where's Lolly?"


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